Feelings Matter

Experiencing the Feeling of Bliss
Bliss often defies definition, and yet we know it when we feel it. In the episode, the team reflects on bliss not as an ecstatic high, but as a peaceful joy that feels settled, soft, and safe. It’s the quiet warmth of being present in a moment that doesn’t need to be improved. One of the key ideas the hosts share is that bliss is something you can’t chase, it arrives when you create space for it. That distinction is powerful. Instead of striving, bliss asks for surrender.

Experiencing the Feeling of Embarrassed
The episode dives into what embarrassment really feels like, emphasizing that it’s more than just a fleeting awkward moment, it's a full-body experience. The hosts describe sensations like hot cheeks, a fluttering stomach, and the impulse to freeze or run. This response is the body’s way of signaling social threat our nervous system reacting as if our identity or safety is being questioned. What's interesting is how physical it is, even when the cause is something small, like forgetting what to say or hitting “send” too fast.

Experiencing the Feeling of Apathy
Apathy often isn’t just about not caring, it’s a complex emotional signal that may be rooted in chronic stress, burnout, depression, or even physical illness. One speaker in the episode mentioned how apathy can appear as a “flatness” a lack of emotional highs or lows. This is more than tiredness. It’s the sense that even the things that once inspired you now fail to register. It’s not that you choose not to care; it’s that you can’t seem to summon the energy to care.

Experiencing the Feeling of Delighted
Delight is one of those feelings that often slips in quietly, catching us off guard with its sparkle. It can appear during the most ordinary moments—a random kind gesture, a humorous thought, a memory that resurfaces unexpectedly. Unlike broader emotions such as joy or happiness, delight is more pinpointed; it springs from something specific and often fleeting. Yet, it leaves a residue of well-being, a reminder that small joys are both accessible and powerful.

Experiencing the Feeling of Craving
Craving is one of the most human experiences—ancient, primal, and often misunderstood. It gets labeled as weakness in some cultures or mistaken for addiction in others. But in truth, craving is a natural response to perceived lack. We crave what we believe will fill a void: comfort, love, excitement, relief. This feeling is not inherently negative—, it’s simply intense. And it begs us not just to notice, but to listen.

Experiencing the Feeling of Thrilled
There’s something electric about being thrilled. It can arrive uninvited—a spontaneous reaction to an unexpected joy or a moment of connection that catches you off guard. The speakers reflected on how we often use this word casually, even carelessly. Saying “I’d be thrilled to go to the grocery store” strips the word of its power. Thrill is not just joy; it’s intensity. It’s the spark that lights up the mind and body with anticipation, sometimes even without warning.

Experiencing the Feeling of Tired
Feeling tired, especially on an emotional level, is often overlooked because it doesn’t always come with visible symptoms. It’s not as simple as yawning or needing a nap—it’s the sense that even when the world is quiet, your inner self remains noisy, strained, or heavy. One of the most confusing aspects is how it can persist even after rest. That’s when you realize it isn’t about sleep—it’s about soul-weariness, the kind that comes from overextending yourself emotionally or holding too much for too long.

Experiencing the Feeling of Love
Love is a word we use often, sometimes too casually but when we slow down and truly feel into it, love reveals itself as one of the most layered and dynamic emotions we experience. It can feel euphoric, grounding, heartbreaking, and healing—all within the same breath. Unlike the fleeting highs of infatuation or attraction, love asks us to stay. To choose. To participate. It’s not just something that happens to us; it’s something we cultivate, especially over time.

Emotional Literacy
In this season-opening episode of Feelings Matter, Michelle, Tina, and Heather dive deep into the meaning and impact of emotional literacy—a topic that might sound academic, but is rooted in everyday life. Emotional literacy, simply put, is our ability to identify, name, and understand our emotions and the emotions of others. While its formal roots come from psychologist Claude Steiner's five-part definition, the team focuses on what it really looks like in our day-to-day lives—recognizing, naming, and responding to emotions in a conscious and empowered way.